family

grieving and treatment

My father passed away a couple of weeks ago (the night before I started IT Herceptin, in fact). His service was last week. It was small and private. I was very impressed with the priest who had never met my father but listened to my mom and my sister and said some very thoughtful things.The end of …

it’s deja vu all over again

I’ve been struggling to write this post for the last couple of days. Two nights ago, a friend of my son’s was saying that he finds it much easier to write when he’s writing to someone. My spouse shared that he once had a university prof suggest that he get over writers’ block by starting …

how much to say and how to say it: the blogger’s dilemma

I’m finding my blogging constrained these days by thoughts of how others, particularly my family, are feeling. I’m especially concerned that my children could be reading, if they chose to do so. How could I possibly put my very darkest thoughts here, as well as my most hopeful, happiest, meanest and angriest, knowing that they …

i’ve never liked rollercoasters

Are you sitting comfortably? This is going to be a long one. In late August, during a regular appointment with my medical oncologist, I was informed that my latest brain scan revealed a tiny spot on my cerebellum, exactly where mytumour was in 2012. I was going to write that I was blind-sided but I …